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Steps to Mend Your Broken Heart

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So you have just had a break up recently and you're still not able to come to terms with your ex not being around you. I know how you feel it is a very difficult moment you are facing. Life is full of uncertainties and mending your broken heart is just the outcome of one of those unexpected changes life throws at you. It is though for you and very important to nurse your heart and be ready to face life and life in a real world; a world which your ex is not going to be a part of. You h
ave to come to terms with the bitter truth of spending your evenings by yourself from now on, going to the Starbucks alone and still listen to the same music that you once loved to listen to together.
Some say a breakup is a wake up call. Don't recall what has happen to your relationship. It is easier said than to do anything when you're thrown in this kind of a situation. But as they say life isn't a bed of roses, you need to have the courage and move on.
Take a Break!
The best thing to do once you've had a breakup is to take some time off for yourself and get a grip of your feelings and emotions. The state of mind that one is in during or after a break up will not let you concentrate and give your best to anything you do. So take a little break from work and rather work on getting back your usual self.
Reassure Yourself
Wake up in the morning and look at yourself in the mirror and say that you want to live life a happy one. This is very essential as until you don't feel like living, anything you do wouldn't be done whole heartedly. You are not a loser to run away from life just because of some hard situations that you have to face. Come to think of it mending a broken heart is far easier than losing your life or losing your health. Life is God's gift and we should make good use of it, so sulking and crying should be shown the door.
How About a House Makeover
If you've been living together it is harder as you're so used to seeing your ex around your house. Change the way the things are placed in the house. Move the TV back into your bedroom, put up some nice posters or paintings that you always wanted to buy and place in your house. There are so many posters or wall hangings that have inspirational quotes on them, go get yourself one, and read these quotes everyday and try to gather your self confidence back again.
Laugh Your Lungs Out
Avoid watching sad movies. There are so many good comedy movies that will have you rolling all over with tears in your eyes laughing watching them. Walk to your nearby store and rent some good titles and watch them. Laughter is the best medicine; it not only exercises your muscles but also clears up your lungs and will be a perfect medicine to mend your broken heart. Laughter works like a therapy for your body and soul, so laugh as much as you can, and you wouldn't even realize that it's been quite some time that your mind wandered and thought about your ex.
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